The art of aural sex
With cybersex one of the latest of the Internet trends the art of aural sex has grown and with more and more people relaxing into the art of dirty talk as they realize how stimulating being talked dirty to and taking dirty can be!
The fine line between being offensive and enticing with dirty talk!
Although talking dirty can be very stimulating and in a way sexually liberating there is a very fine line between it being sexy and offensive. When you are wanting to express yourself in that way keep in mind you are trying to entice and excite your partner not offend and or put them off.
3 things you should and should not say when talking dirty:
#1 Unless explicitly asked to try not to be insulting or critical in anyway.
Woman and men alike tend to like being told how sexy they are and what parts of them drive you wild.
#2 Always let your partner know how much you crave them and that you wish what you were sharing, and feeling would last indefinitely.
Try not to have prolonged silences or not talk at all, woman want to feel desired and know that they are pleasing as does a man. Communication is not only the key to any relationship even just a sexual one it is also an aphrodisiac when a person’s voice is laced with the gruffness of desire and their eyes intense pools of lust!
#3 Say your partner’s name while you nibble their ear or as you are reaching that pinnacle. Make them feel that you are there with them and not some fantasy in your head or striving for a quick release. It makes them feel you are both in the same room sharing an intimate act together!
It should not even have to be said but saying the wrong name – well that is sure to get a little bit rough and not in a satisfying way!
Aural sex shared over the phone or by other digital means can be fulfilling but when practiced during sex makes the act a bit more intimate and exciting.
Get creative, be respectful of each other’s boundaries and try not to be to scientifically accurate in your account of your partner’s anatomy, it is “dirty talk” after all, but mostly enjoy each other!